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Just take a moment out of your busy life and observe yourself. Observe everything that has already surrounded you. Observe what situation you’ve got yourself into. Are you who you want to be? Or are you simply someone the society wants you to be? The one who casually holds a degree, assuming its a symbol of his quality? The one who is just a reflection of the stereotypical expectations of others? Think about it, is that even you? You do not owe anyone your life. You do not have to limit yourself by having the fear of people judging you. Honestly, most of the humans do a pretty great job at that. But that, when thought of, doesn’t really matter at all. What actually matters is if you’re ready to speak up for yourself and break the bounds that the society has got to offer you. It actually doesn’t matter what others think but what matters is what you think. People are more than glad to throw shade at you but only a handful of ears are there to hear you. Do not limit yourself to the gates created by others. Be someone who rather has the courage to open them.

 

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